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]]> http://parenting101success.com/parenting-secrets/#comment-980 GFC4H Sun, 30 Oct 2011 14:33:43 +0000 http://grandfatherclocksforhome.com/?page_id=1426#comment-980 Tantrums can be very hard to deal with; you are not alone. There is hope for you and your son. First, start with you. Find some way to take a few minutes of personal time each day, breathe, relax, don’t think about your son. Can someone look after him for a little time each day? You will need your patience, and you will need clear thinking. When does your son have these tantrums? If you can identify what sets off the tantrums, you will be better equipped to find a solution. For the next few years of your son’s life, he is learning how to deal with frustration. Your toddler’s reality is getting a need satisfied, now. Have you noticed that if you give in to the tantrum and do what the toddler wants, that the tantrum stops instantly? The toddler’s tantrum is an out of control and unmanageable response to a ‘want.’ A toddler wants what he/she wants immediately. If you can consider his tantrums as a way of communicating with you, you will be able to ask yourself, “What does my son really need?” I’m sure that you know that every time he screams for a cookie, he does not really ‘need’ a cookie. When parents hear screams of a toddler, it grates on our nervous system. It is instinctual to react to the cries of our children. Then when a parent realizes that that child is not hurt, but having a tantrum frustration joins the worry. Your son is growing and learning; you are growing and learning, and teaching. As your son grows, you are setting limits, and your son doesn’t like that. He does not ‘need’ everything he ‘wants.’ Shift the position of your perspective of the problem and relax. I have been receiving several questions about tantrums, perhaps I should write an article to give more detailed information about tantrums. Thank you for your comment. Tantrums can be very hard to deal with; you are not alone. There is hope for you and your son. First, start with you. Find some way to take a few minutes of personal time each day, breathe, relax, don’t think about your son. Can someone look after him for a little time each day? You will need your patience, and you will need clear thinking. When does your son have these tantrums? If you can identify what sets off the tantrums, you will be better equipped to find a solution. For the next few years of your son’s life, he is learning how to deal with frustration.
Your toddler’s reality is getting a need satisfied, now. Have you noticed that if you give in to the tantrum and do what the toddler wants, that the tantrum stops instantly? The toddler’s tantrum is an out of control and unmanageable response to a ‘want.’ A toddler wants what he/she wants immediately.
If you can consider his tantrums as a way of communicating with you, you will be able to ask yourself, “What does my son really need?” I’m sure that you know that every time he screams for a cookie, he does not really ‘need’ a cookie.
When parents hear screams of a toddler, it grates on our nervous system. It is instinctual to react to the cries of our children. Then when a parent realizes that that child is not hurt, but having a tantrum frustration joins the worry.
Your son is growing and learning; you are growing and learning, and teaching. As your son grows, you are setting limits, and your son doesn’t like that. He does not ‘need’ everything he ‘wants.’ Shift the position of your perspective of the problem and relax.
I have been receiving several questions about tantrums, perhaps I should write an article to give more detailed information about tantrums. Thank you for your comment.

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